As you are probably aware, or at least have heard before, we are living in the end of days. A major part of this website is dedicated to exposure and warning of an end time evil that is commonly known as “Narcissism” or “NarcoPath”. The Bible has a lot to say about the many kinds of giving yourself over to evil and not walking in the light of truth. In our age of encouraged selfishness, relative morality, and increasing technological support, it is more easy and “normal” than ever to walk in the vanity of our own imaginations, and train ourselves to become socially diseased and pathological.
If you parent, mentor, or know teens and young adults, then you need to warn them about these people: gaslighters, flying monkeys, love bombing, love dosing, triangulation, idealization/devaluation/discard, victim/hero speak, “grand finale”, hoovering, misogyny, smear campaign and character assassination when they are about to be exposed, crazy-making, future faking, appearing beautiful outwardly, slipping mask, malingering, emotional con artistry, believing their own lies, cover marriage or relationships for a false ‘normal’ front, impulsive rash decisions and behaviors, reversive blockade, reality twisting, projecting their faults to other people, false apology, guilt tripping, using and abusing leadership/trusted positions, chronic pathological lying, staunch denial of blaringly obvious truth, managing down expectations, pity party sob story, false hope, inappropriate emotional reaction, emotional vampirism, and narcissist supply.
These are fancy forms of LYING used by the sociopath, narcissist, narcopath, borderline personality, cyberpath, cluster B type person, and there are more and more of these people in the end times. The reason young people need to know, is because this lying (sociopath) can be so deceptive and appear normal to the newbie or outsiders (apaths) for a very long time, then end in disaster for the innocent party (empath). The victim is usually (90+% of the time) not believed after the successful targeted smear campaign against them.
Young people need to be warned, because this is becoming a stealthy growing danger of modern society, in which people are losing their innocence, trust, reputations, wealth, health, futures, and even their lives to these dangerous selfish abusers. And don’t worry, you are not going to teach an innocent person to act like a psychopath merely by informing them….these behaviors can only be the natural outcome of someone who has made their selfish ego their GOD for many years, who greatly enjoys the suffering of others, and who routinely justifies pathological lying with a seared conscience.
Some good defenses against this type of trickery and abuse:
1) Prior education and awareness
2) Consistent contact and consultation with wise godly people about your relationships and life decisions
3) Being suspicious of any excessive flattery or “love”
4) If it seems too good to be true then it probably is
5) Making rash decisions by feelings only, not carefully by God’s Word and wise thinking is dangerous
6) Having a strong godly standard against fornication, sleeping around, shacking up.
I have met a small percentage of these personality disordered persons in the church leadership. This is becoming more common in church, as sociopaths are attracted to the attention, ego boost, money, power, and saintly covering of church leadership positions. As society becomes more evil, so do the church-goers….(at least for now, while it is still not dangerous to go to church).
Stay tuned for further blog posts about narcopathy, its causes, its implications, and YES – the only real cure!
This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
~2 Timothy 3~